come on nathan, where ya been man? He is saying that today, women are just too much of a liability. Sorry no it hits the nail on the head. All I care about is that women choose men who value them. I see this relationship as a disaster, because if she is already this out of synch with him, imagine once they have been married a few years. Emily, you are seriously taking this out of context. People do read about what interests them. I also don’t think men are to blame for the fact that that’s is about all modern women have to contribute, sure there are some awesome women that have plenty to offer but they are to few for me to call it the norm. KW, I am divorced, no kids (but always wanted them). https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/living-single/201103/maybe-time-it-will-stick-get-married-and-you-ll-live-longer-is-myth I do Not want one sided relationships because it’s unfair. In the mean while she might be, but some friend told her to first play silly games for a while. As do men, women respond better to encouragement and edification, not tearing down. To any women asking why men aren’t all that worried about relationships. It might just as well be a another women’s magazine sitting here telling women only what they want to hear. If he was so wrong then no other guys would have agreed with him, however I think he will get millions of men right now saying the same thing not only in America, this social trend moved globally, some countries are just slower to get infected than others. Then I’m not even started with all the new double standards, male roles that have been abolished by feminism, increasing laws that objectify men, women becoming mens opposition rather than support. A woman will likely watch SOAPs, and talk shows. 11. Sure there are other issues but this is where all the problems start. It does not fit me. I really learned a lot! It is equally unappealing for women when old men want 1 night with a 25 y.o. Even if you're in a relationship, it’s important and healthy … 2. In just about every relationship that I have had, including my marriage, the woman always wanted me to be different. Men know some stuff. All you can do is complain it seems. women dream about their weddings all their lives. You appear to not have done any research. the sacrifices I had to make was never worth the effort. I dont want to ‘owe’ a man. Make 200+ a year. Find a man for what you want realistically and not rush to bee with someone for the sake of the company the relationship provides. If we could think like men we’d be men. Uncertainty breeds opportunity. thus if you fear to commit only to women, then women are the common denominator and not commitment. I do it and therefore I have many male and female friends. Sayanta #10, this is true. It’s not like anyone is arm wrestling women to take the pay they are offered. No more so than you or any other normal person. My assistant says it’s because when they’re single, they can play video games and watch porn, and if they got a girlfriend, she’d insist they give up one or both. This seems like a self-fulfilling prophecy for our poor friend, Norbert. Thanks for the usual statement. When he came back, the only women he would date were Asian women. in its direct and physical sense it really isn’t important at all. Human connection and love is worth more to people than possessions, although most people don’t realize it until it’s too late. I would love to see what would happen if regulated prostitution was legal in the US like in Amsterdam. 2 ) The male sex drive is far stronger than the female , a large percentage of women are asexual & most women are indifferent to sex. He also commented on your post. Been there, done that, did not like. Also, do not blame anyone or anybody. i cancelled my subscriptions because i just couldn’t reach what was on the pedestal. Literally the more women in the marriage the higher the divorce rate! I’d much prefer a woman who didn’t care for monogamy as much.I’d love a women who wasn’t such an emotional slave master. –and u think I don’t want to have sex with him?? Many women do have hobbies. Like you only need to read RustyLH’s posts once to clearly know he insinuated nothing of that you accuse him for being. men do seem to be more capable of hurting others and not caring about who they hurt than woman so they are more likely to have casual sex and hurt woman doing it the same as they are more likely to rob a bank but don’t worry because eventually all the men who lived like that get it in the end they become incapable of love and die alone and worse they are hardened and their own worse enemy they fall down and no one is there to support them or pick them up and when they do try to invest in a relationship they blow the deal because they are dysfunctional so don’t buy into their bullshit like you need to soften up no you don’t soften up only to a man who 1st treats you like the woman you are other wise don’t or you will get hurt…. Your not. Most of the men I know are happier being single than the women I know, especially those who no longer have kids at home, or close by, and even more so for those who never had children. I would love to meet a guy I could talk to about world affairs and sports and have a discussion about these things. He will steal most of this time soon enough so “hate being single” while you can. No reason to ever think about giving up 50%+ of what I worked – and took huge risks for. and have great proof of their facts as much as feminist have. The kind of guys women want to marry have nothing to gain from it. But just by reading the link, she came out strongly accusing me of being mischievous. The courts and my exwife treated me not much better than a sperm donor. There’s a lot to be said about taking care of your body, and turning out well. If a man doesn’t want a relationship with you, don’t take it personal. The role the men take. I am single and I don’t bother any woman. Are you this hostile towards men in your life? But I did want to to say that doing that might well make a man value you … but it doesn’t necessarily make him *appreciate* you, or *show* you that he values you. The Kinsey data is from an era when MOST people – male and female – married. If a man is single all he has to do is go to mustang ranch to get sex. Had plenty of sex in my life at this point. he just said it that he is not that interested and now you say he is not a good candidate WTF… it’s like people here have great difficulty reading or something. Women still have the “old maid spinster” labels hanging over them. It’s only been a few dates you wack job! You just didn’t read it because he commented so many times on so many posts. if she doesn’t ditch you, it is because she sees hope for you…in other words, she thinks you can win the approval of her friends and family and she will try to make you into the man that you “need’ to be. Maybe she goes over there and help him paint the baseboards on his house. well thats my point. On rare occasions that I do reveal this fact about myself, people appear to be stunned. I just don’t know how you get to the points you make. But in my experience, the American women I dated or married…hated those with a passion. Either you like men and want to have one, or you like cats. Then instead settle to short phrases to describe them using words like commitment phobia, objectification, one track mind, immature, to explain them in ways that makes women feel good and what makes men feel misunderstood creating more barriers between genders than bringing genders together. I can see the value in learning words, for example, from French. A rude response yes but it is true that credible research time and time again has shown not only that marriage benefits men greatly but that single men have much higher rates of suicide and criminality than married men. That money he makes is earned because of what he produces and the arduous nature of the job, such as being away from home for months at a time. One of them, #17, is called “enjoying being single.” It has 217 responses. Men still tend to work in jobs that reduce their life. LOL! Wasn’t that the one that said a child could have orgasms as early as three years old. Sparkling Emerald, I know what you mean! Or you won't be meeting your SOs emotional/social needs. Am I Asking You to Change Your Personality Just to Catch a Man? I explained this before. I’m not sure how long it will take for you to grasp this simple concept that there is no point in you telling me that your women should not date me if I am not interested in dating…does any of it make sense to you or do you need more time to think about it. Wow. As a guy who thinks women are only good for sex, you would not be a prime candidate for any of my readers as a partner. Not what I want to emulate. They feel like they are doomed for life to be single or to only get the scraps that other men don’t want. The other thing is this. I’m not an American, but every time I read a comment from a American woman (Mostly) I understand perfectly why so many American guys gave up hope and stop bothering, the arrogance and stupidity is amazing.